I agree 40 years have really flown by but on the other hand I think that most of us have really gotten better and have really good lives. Jim and I have been married 38 1/2 years, 3 daughters, and 4 wonderful grandsons!!! We have been very fortunate so I guess we are doing something right! We are looking forward to seeing everyone soon. We talked about moving away too but who wants to leave the grandkids!!!!